Kids, Just For Fun.

Posted on Monday, March 21 at 00:18 by Crankster
It was amazing how well expressed and timely the message was. Exactly what I needed. That is what brought me to the subject of, Kids,just for fun. How long has it been since we relished the dirt between our fingers and toes? Plucked worms and pill bugs and all manner of insects out from under rotting logs? How long has it been since we all laughed till our sides hurt? How long has it been since we used our heart for play instead of our heads? I sat here tonight wondering what do people really want to hear about? The same old rhetoric, the same old diatribe. There is definitely a time to discuss and debate the issues at hand. There is a time to seek answers. There is certainly a time to speak out. More so now then ever before. We face some tough times ahead. The warnings are all there. Canadian independance, sovereignty, the very way we have lived our lives is in jeopardy. Elections, trials, war, it all has its place. So to does the voice and laughter of a child. Pause for a second, if you will. Let me ask a very important question. What do you fight for, everyday? Is it for the love of a free country? In which your child and mine can run and laugh. Playing their games, with reckless abandon as only their unlimited imaginations can do? Is it to be able to pause and listen to that laughter? Letting it spill over your very being, lifting and soothing your cares away? Ever watch children at play? The seriousness with which they attack every make-believe entity their minds can produce. If only our politicians attacked issues with such fervor, think of how much change would actually take place. Listen in one day, while your children are hard at what they do best. Listen to the created worlds they have. The cities in the dirt, built with whatever is at hand. Even more so, listen to the story behind it. More often than not, that story contains a parody of the world around them. A verbalisation of the purest sense, unmarred by political influence. Kept clean by innocence. We often forget that children are keen to pick things up. Sometimes, those things are not what we would want them to pick up. Our attitude toward society, the world etal, is often mimicked by our little ones. For example, I have used the expression, "going to hell in a handbasket", at the absolute worst of times. I only realized this when my oldest boy, who was three and half at the time, came up to me with a pillow in his hand. When I asked him what it was for, he said it was to put in the basket so the world wouldn't have such a bumpy ride. Well, as you can imagine, I near fell off my chair. Now that same boy, is a towering fifteen year old, who came to me one day and said that the world is certainly going to hell in a handbasket, give me back the pillow damn it! But, this same boy, knows what is on the horizon, he knows whats up. Hes as prepared as he can be, and becomes more so everyday. Does it mean he dislikes the world he lives in? Not a chance! He is chomping at the bit to get a peice of this ball we live on. He wants to make a difference! Imagine if our politicians were like that! What kind of world will be left over for them when we are through with it? That is something that blazed a trail through my mind as I watched my younger sons squabbling outside about territorial rights or some such thing. After I separated them, it gave me pause for thought,just what it was they were fighting over. They have seven acres to play in. Hmmm, sound familiar? So, to end this rather different piece, I ask you,just for fun; What is it that you fight for? Is it for the kids? Or just for fun?

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  1. by avatar Milton
    Mon Mar 21, 2005 12:43 pm
    Sorry for your loss. It was an interesting post, a change from the usual fare.

  2. Tue Mar 22, 2005 3:17 am
    Crankster, you are like the little shredded wheat guys, frosted on the outside but....This was an excellent post, and we do need those kinds of posts, which humanize the entire point of our quest. I think that sometimes we get caught up in the fight, then become tired of it and recoil back to our selves, but remembering why we fight actually helps to put it into perspective and may even keep that fight clean. When you remember that our youth are watching our example, the old song Cats in the Cradle comes to mind. They will become what we are today, because we show them what we value and they love us, so if something is important to us, it will be to them. But more importantly is the way we chose to acquire the things we need or want, and the way we treat people along the road.

    Thanks for the great post!

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    If I stand for my country today...will my country be here to stand for me tomorrow?

  3. Wed Mar 23, 2005 9:14 am
    Milton,Whelon,thanks for the support. In a way it was a intended as change. Anger and throwing out verbal litter is no way to achieve change where change is needed.
    I guess my tack in the writings that I am undertaking are geared to the poignancy if not the urgency in which we need to act and respond to the events going on the world.A lot of which are reflected in Canadian policy both personnaly and corporately as a country.
    I feel it is a time to reexamine why we all fight for what we do. What we believe in.Remove the extra trappings and take ground,not only for ourselves, but, those in our stead.
    After all, that little one on your knee is who will be left holding the bag.

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    A little peice of heaven is found in good deeds.

  4. by Railer
    Wed Mar 23, 2005 9:42 am
    Interesting discussion, I read your other articles as well. It's an interesting question you ask "What is it that you fight for? Is it for the kids? Or just for fun?" The answer is simple, both. I fight for my kids and for fun. Any competition I where I'm not thinking of the best for my child AND going into it with a joyful heart is probably not a battle I wish to have any part in.

    You used a phrase I found amusing “going to hell in a handbasket”, and in your other articles I found you view on life very pessimistic, or at least angry towards society, and particularly to or friends to the south. Did you know the phase stated above, or a phase like it, has been around since the 1600’s? Was the world going to hell four hundred years ago? Since then democracy has broken out across most of the world, life expectancy has doubled, and we feed more people now then we have ever fed in the past.

    You know what’s funny we are very similar and yet very different. We’re both Canadian, Westerners (Alberta here), we both come from old Canadian stock, we even both have the same name, (ya my name is also James Bilodeau, you ever google your own name?) , but you seem to be very distrustful about the world in general, while I see nothing but opportunities, joy, and laughter.

    Anyhow it’s time for bed, I would love to here your opinions on the Liberation of Iraq, Environmentalism, Canada, USA, Big business and anything else. Why? Pessimists make me laugh. :)

    Jim Bilodeau

    Our earth is degenerate in these latter days;
    bribery and corruption are common;
    children no longer obey their parents;
    and the end of the world is evidently approaching.

    -Assyrian clay tablet 2800 B.C.

  5. Fri Mar 25, 2005 5:40 am
    Hah! So! An imposter! You double crossin',lyin, no good........!!!!!!! Get you going?!
    Anyway,how intriguing to find another me, yet wholly opposite?! Someone with my moniker that is joyful,optimistic.
    Mr.Bilodeau,let me first say that a lot of my earlier postings where full of a pessimism and anger. I acknowledge that and have given an appology as well,to the members on this site.
    I too realize that the saying I used has been around for thousands of years.I neither inferred that I made it up or coined it in any way. It sums up the state of the nation,should future events take hold(which is almost a surety).
    It also sumed up my life during those rantings that passed for postings. Personnaly,Mr.Bilodeau, I have gone through the gammut of family death,financial hardship, health, career change,all this in less than three months. I supposed I had a right to be a little colourful or prozaic.
    As mentioned,it took a death in the family to help propell me to the realization that life is to short and precious to waste sqawking and wailing about what should be changed. Rather,the energy expended should be better used to effect change.
    So,Jim,except my apology as one James Bilodeau to another. I will certainly try to live up to our name in the future.
    I pray you will continue in joy and optimism enough for all people to share in the light it shines.

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    A little peice of heaven is found in good deeds.

  6. Fri Mar 25, 2005 5:48 am
    By the way Jim,my thoughts on the topics you raised will come forth in a matter of time. As I form a new outlook on this ol' world. Ciao for now.



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    A little peice of heaven is found in good deeds.

  7. by Railer
    Fri Mar 25, 2005 11:42 pm
    Cool, Lets go for a beer!



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